Some things are important, some are not.
What is important, can sometimes depend on one’s perspective. Where you’re coming from, what kind of cards life has dealt you.
One thing that should always be important is respecting others, even when what they believe to be true is different from what you believe in. This should be basic stuff you learned in Kindergarten, though many who claim to be highly educated still have not learned this lesson.
Some times it is not the journey, but the destination that is important, which brings me to the point of the soap box rant de jour.
This past week, a friend on Facebook came across a post that contained a link that supposedly told how the MMR shots caused Autism. When you clicked on the link, there was one sentence on the screen that read, “They F***ing Don’t”. Some how this was supposed to be a joke, and we all were going to have a good laugh. Instead of laughter, my jaw dropped. My brain actually froze for a second, as I could not believe how anyone, ANYONE could think this was remotely funny, or anything but insensitive. It didn’t even matter to me, the how or why of Autism, but the fact that someone made a joke out of something so devastating to families all over the world. What were they going to do for a follow-up, make a joke that started, “Three Women with Breast Cancer go to a bar…”??? I was told the post “evaporated”, but the damage had already been done.
My point is, in this instance, the how or the why of Autism does not matter. What matters is that Autism is not in any shape or form, funny. Yes, laughter is the best medicine, but in this case the punch line was just a punch in the stomach, to those already suffering a devastating medical syndrome, that has no known cure.
You see, there is an unspoken Rule in this Autism Club, and it is no joke. We have each other’s backs. No matter what. And Sometimes it is the only thing we in The Club can count on.